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The divorce rate for first marriages is over 67%. That means two out of
three marriages will result in divorce. Also, many who remain married lead
quiet lives of desperation. The deal breakers should be unresolved abuse,
(emotional and /or physical), adultery and addiction.
In spite of these staggering statistics, many people in first and second
marriages are able to find everlasting love. Those people have realized that
all relationships begin with them and not the other person. They understand
their love map. As a result, they have learned how to select the right
partner for themselves and how to live a lifestyle that supports a healthy
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John Gottman states that the ability to resolve conflicts and the balance
between negativity and positivity seems to be the key dynamic in what
amounts to be the emotional climate of every marriage. In intimate
relationships there are crucial rates of daily positive and negative
emotional exchange. If these rates are in balance, love thrives. When they
get too far off balance, then the love between a couple withers and dies,
like an endangered species starved of its basic nutrients.
Of course, such a simplistic statement barely touches the multifaceted
reasons of what it takes to make a relationship work. Through research, we
have found that individuals have certain patterns they follow. Once you
identify your love map, you will be able to create the kind of relationship
that you want.
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identify the obstacles, beliefs, behaviors, and problems that are inhibiting
your happiness and help you rewrite your love map. To get started, all you
have to do is take the first step with your FREE Marital Assessment |
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"A Guide to Divorce Mediation"
by Gary Friedman
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"Crazytime"
by Abigail Trafford
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